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Wednesday, August 8, 2007

感觉

感觉没有了,该如何走下去呢?

昨晚和男朋友说了这感觉,他无言,我哭了。然后他说“如果说跟我在一起让你不快乐,而你又有更好的选择,你可以让我知道“。这时我不知道该哭还是笑。不晓得是他为了我好还是他也一样没感觉了才这么说。

感觉这东西很抽象,有就是有,没有就是没有。感觉没有了,再怎么强求也没用。感觉对了,无论如何,至死不渝。

到底是女人太抽象,还是男人太理智呢?

9 comments:

Anthony said...

hi;

take a magnets as a example...
"North" and "South" bring together it will stick.
if you force "N" and "N" or "S" and "S" together it will repels...
If there is no more feeling between you and your boysfriends,why force each others
tgether...

its will bring more misery to both of you...

pls. take care...

Michelle said...

Hi Anthony,

Thks for yr advise.

But do u think that just becos of no more feeling we hv to let go n wipe away those that happen between us so far? In a relationship, both hv to put in effort to build it up even if after married. I know can't force to be together but those effort n memory that we had gone thru is always something that we hv to precious. Without doing anything then to let it go becos of no feeling i think is not so right. That's why i really dunno how to go on.

Anyway thank u for yr opinion. Hope tomorrow will be better.

Kate said...

人间最珍贵的是友情;
最浪漫的是爱情;
最动人的是恋情;
最伤感的是感情;
最想要的是真情;
最容易的是动情;
最烦人的是心情!
相处时需要包容,
相恋时需要真心,
争吵时需要沟通,
孤独时需要人陪,
难过时需要安慰,
生气时需要冷静,
快乐时需要分享,
逃避不一定躲得过,
面对不一定最难受,
孤单不一定不快乐,
得到不一定能长久,
失去不一定不再有,
转身不一定最软弱。

Camille said...

其实我也是觉得感觉很重要,总觉得它很奇妙无法形容。

两个人能在一起也许是种缘分,辛苦建立起来的感情有着美好的回忆。所以试着去找回你失去的感觉吧!加油!

Michelle said...

Kate,

谢谢你的分享!真的该好好的想一想。


Camille,

也许我就是被这该死的感觉害死! 我会努力的,要是还不能,那只好跟着感觉走 !

谢谢你,我会加油的!

Anthony said...

maybe both can try something you both never try before, in-order to bring back the happy memory eg. go on a short overseas trips...

as maybe both of you are busy in work that don't have time for each other....

anyway don't push yourself too hard...

Michelle said...

Anthony,

Really thank you v much for your advise.

Ya i will try to do something b4 really jump into separate way. Sometime also believe take it or leave it so if i still want to be with him then i hv to do something to take it or else i hv to leave it.

Anyway as u said dun push too hard till i make the wrong decision. Maybe will take a break!

Thanks everyone for your concern!

Richard said...

Hi Michelle,
Sad to heard that, but that seems normal now a days, as people treat love value differently, bou bian, can't really advise u, but just remember, force love will not have happy endings. Wish both of u can 创造美好和幸福的明天。

Michelle said...

Hi Richard,

Thanks for yr advice. Well....i also agreed that force love is not a gd sign so we will work hard on this relationship.

Anyway we had a gd talk over the weekend. So we r fine now and agreed to work hard on our relationship. So i believe we will be fine if we don't give up our effort easily.

Thanks to everyone for your concern !